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Virtuous States of Mind

We have been talking how our mind works and we are going to continue that discussion.  As we discussed, there are eleven virtuous states of mind. The eleven virtuous states of mind are: 1) Faith; 2) Sense of Shame; 3) Consideration for Others; 4) Non-attachment; 5) Non-hatred; 6) Non-ignorance; 7) Effort; 8) Mental Suppleness; 9) Conscientiousness; 10) Equanimity; 11) Non-harmfulness.

Let’s continue with the next virtuous state of mind that is non-ignorance. It is a mental factor that is a direct opponent of ignorance. It is a type of wisdom that acts as an antidote to ignorance. For example, wisdom realizing selflessness is non-ignorance. The function of non-ignorance is to enable us to understand the profound concept of emptiness. As our non-ignorance grows, we are closer to understanding emptiness. This wisdom realizing emptiness is our true wealth. Because once we realize emptiness, there is no suffering. Non-ignorance can arise from listening or reading, contemplating, meditating and from imprints. The first three are very similar to wisdom. If we read or listen to dharma teachings, contemplate about them and then meditate on it, we will develop non-ignorance. Non-ignorance arising from imprints is based on our karma. If we had strong karmic imprints, we would naturally develop non-ignorance.

Next, virtuous state of mind is effort. Effort makes our mind happy to engage in virtuous tasks such as giving, helping others, meditation, spiritual practice, etc. The opposite of effort is laziness. Effort is supreme because all virtuous qualities arise from power of effort. We may have heard about benefits for meditation but without applying effort, those benefits never materialize. Buddha said that if you only have effort, you have all Dharma. If you only have laziness, you have nothing. There are four types of efforts. Armour-like effort, effort of non-discouragement, effort of application, and effort of non-satisfaction. Armour-like effort is a courageous mind that makes us keep up our spiritual practice no matter what kind of external hardship we face. Effort of non-discouragement prevents us from getting discouraged if we don’t see immediate results. So, if our meditation practice is not making progress, we do not give up on our practice. Effort of application is a mind that engages in spiritual practice with delight. We are happy to practice and it is not a “chore” for us. The effort of non-satisfaction is the kind of effort we put in to continually improve our practice. We are not satisfied with the little progress we have made and we want to continue making more progress.

The next virtuous mind is mental suppleness. It is flexibility of mind induced by virtuous concentration. You will notice that when we are absorbed in your meditation, you will naturally feel lighter. That is mental suppleness. When our mind is heavy and rigid, it engages in delusions. A supple mind is naturally virtuous and engages in virtuous karma.

The next virtuous state of mind is conscientiousness. It is a mental factor that cherishes what is virtuous and guards the mind against non-virtuous karma and delusions. It prevents our mind from being influenced by delusion. For example, it prevents us from being angry at someone who we disagree with by not thinking about them or avoiding them. It can also prevent delusions by exaggerating good qualities of an object. For example, if we disagree with our loved one, rather getting angry, if we think of all their good qualities, we will not get angry at them. Shantideva said that there is no practice greater than preventing our mind from being negative. Conscientiousness is generally practiced in conjunction with mindfulness and alertness. That is what we practice in our M A C meditation. We are mindful of our thoughts and stay alert for any negative thought that may pop up and are practicing conscientiousness to prevent our mind from chasing any delusions. The main function of conscientiousness is to enable us to keep our moral discipline and to improve our concentration. By practicing conscientiousness, we reduce our delusions and stop committing negative karma. This naturally improves our moral discipline. If our delusions are diminished, our life becomes disciplined and in turn we can improve our concentration.

The next virtuous state of mind is equanimity. Equanimity prevents our mind from mental sinking and mental excitement. An equanimous mind is a balanced mind. There are two types of equanimity. Equanimity towards living beings and equanimity towards phenomena. Equanimity towards living beings means we have compassion towards all living beings without favoritism. Right now, we show compassion towards those we are attached to and are indifferent towards those we do not know. Regarding equanimity of phenomena, if things go our way, we are fine; if things go against us, we are fine. It is an even-keeled state of mind.

The last virtuous state of mind is non-harmfulness. Definition of non-harmfulness is a state of mind that wished all living beings not to suffer. So it is not simply not harming others but compassion towards all sentient beings. We need to be careful and make sure we are not confusing compassion with desirous attachment. Compassion is virtuous while attachment is non-virtuous. For example, our wish for our helper to get better is out of attachment. Our wish for our friends to get better is usually a mix of attachment and compassion. Our wish for some total stranger to get better is out of pure compassion. A person whose mind is filled with compassion could never wish to harm others. Refraining from harming others is one of the most important spiritual practices. There are two types of compassion we can practice. Mere compassion and superior compassion. Wishing someone to be free from suffering is mere compassion. Thinking I myself will act to free them from suffering is superior compassion.

Hopefully, over the last two weeks you have absorbed types of virtuous mind and have developed a wish to maintain these virtuous states of mind at all times.

Virtuous Minds

I hope you are enjoying our series on How To Understand The Mind. We have been discussing different mental factors for the past few sessions. Today, let’s talk about virtuous state of mind. There are eleven virtuous states of mind that are naturally virtual. Just like sugar is naturally sweet, these minds are naturally virtuous. The eleven virtuous states of mind are: 1) Faith; 2) Sense of Shame; 3) Consideration for Others; 4) Non-attachment; 5) Non-hatred; 6) Non-ignorance; 7) Effort; 8) Mental Suppleness; 9) Conscientiousness; 10) Equanimity; 11) Non-harmfulness.

Let’s start with faith. Faith is a mental factor that exists to eliminate non-faith. So, in order to understand faith, let’s understand non-faith. There are three types of non-faith. Non-faith of disbelief, non-faith of non-admiration, and non-faith of not-wishing. Non-faith of disbelief if not believing any correct object in which it is necessary to believe to make spiritual progress. What does that mean? Let’s say you want to meditate. If you do not believe that it will help you calm your mind or give you mental peace however short, it will never work. Because without belief we will not put an effort and without effort nothing ever works as we all know. Non-faith of non-admiration causes us to see faults in spiritual teachers or gurus. A few years ago, I made a practice of not criticizing any spiritual teachers whether I follow them or not. Because even if I do not follow that person, they are guiding other people through their spiritual journey and who am I to criticize that? Non-faith of not-wishing is a mind that does not desire to make spiritual progress. Of all the non-faith, this in my opinion is the worst because it prevents you from practicing spirituality. Faith overcomes all these non-faiths.

You will realize that the function of faith is to induce virtuous aspirations. Without faith in a particular practice, we will not wish to engage in it. And as we discussed last week, without wish, we will not put any effort into it. And without effort, we are not going to be able to achieve any results. Faith is not just necessary for our spiritual practice; it is also necessary for our daily life. Let me give you an example. A friend of mine is suffering some physical pain. He went to several doctors and has been suffering from this condition for more than year. I asked him why he did not get surgery yet and he said I just don’t trust my doctor. You see, without faith in his doctor, he will not commit to surgery and without that he will not get better. Faith removes hesitation. It is also a source of attainment of happiness. How you ask? Well, faith is the source of all virtuous karma and virtuous karma are the source of our happiness. Faith also helps us eliminate pride, which is the source of many of our problems. It is faith which ultimately leads us to liberation and enlightenment.

There are three types of faith. Believing faith; Admiring faith; and Wishing faith. Believing faith is belief in any object that is conducive to our spiritual progress. Admiring faith arises when we contemplate good qualities of virtuous objects or holy beings. Wishing faith is a wish to follow spiritual path based on recognition of its good qualities.

The next virtuous state of mind is Sense of Shame. It prevents us from committing negative or inappropriate actions because it is not suitable for us. For example, if a mosquito is bothering us, instead of killing it if we think that killing this mosquito is not right, that motivation is sense of shame.  Sense of shame serves as foundation for moral discipline. Sense of shame prevents us from committing negative karma by appealing to our conscience. One thing to point out is that sense of shame prevents us from negative karma mostly for consideration for ourselves.

The next virtuous state of mind is Consideration for Others. This state of mind helps us avoid inappropriate actions out of consideration for others. Some examples may be avoid saying something unpleasant because it will upset someone else. Or not going fishing because it hurts fish. We have so many desires and some of them will harm others so before we do something, we should think about if it will harm other living beings. Together with Sense of Shame, Consideration of Others acts as foundation for our moral discipline. Without these two states of mind, our daily behavior will be negative.

The next virtuous state of mind is non-attachment. It is the direct opponent of attachment. As we have discussed in the past, attachment is one of the three poisons that keep us in samsara. We cannot attain liberation while staying attached to samsara. If we have attachment, we are controlled by our circumstances. Think about it. If a pleasurable object shows up, we automatically develop attachment. Avoiding all pleasurable objects is not the answer. Otherwise, we will avoid, food we like, clothes we wear, friends we hang out with and so on. That is not the idea. Idea is to develop a mind of non-attachment by recognizing the faults of attachment.

The next virtuous state of mind is non-hatred. Non-hatred is a direct opponent of hatred. Hatred is same as anger in this scenario. The great Indian yogi Shantideva said that there is no evil greater than anger. It has the power to destroy all the merits we have accumulated in the past. Unless we practice non-hatred, we will not be able to deal with anger, and unless we pacify our anger, we will not find inner peace. When we are angry, we cannot enjoy life. Depending on level of our anger, sometimes, it manifests in physical symptoms. Anger even disturbs our sleep. Unless we have Dharma exposure, we will blame our enemies for all our problems instead of our own delusions and past karma. That will lead to thought of harming them and it will create more negative karma. If we see our hatred coming up, we should try to practice non-hatred by thinking it is not appropriate for me to hate this person as it will only create more negative karma and will harm me in future. This way of thinking will stop the hatred train in its tracks before it takes off. Non-hatred overcomes irritation and frustration and allows us to respond to a situation in calm and positive manner. When we practice non-hatred, we have no enemies.

OK, so we will continue this discussion next week with the remaining virtuous states of mind.

Guiding Mental Factors

We have been talking about our mind for the last few sessions. We looked at three types of minds and then we dived into mental factors that identify the object. Today, let’s continue down this rabbit hole if you will and discuss mental factors that guide us to an object.

There are five mental factors in this category, aspiration, firm apprehension, mindfulness, concentration, and wisdom. Let’s look at each one.

Aspiration is a mental factor that takes an interest in an object. We are all here for meditation tonight. If you did not have an aspiration to calm your mind or make progress on your spiritual journey, you would not be here. The main function of aspiration is to induce effort. Think about it. If we don’t have a wish to meditate, we would not put an effort to be here. You could have a million excuses, its Diwali time, or it’s dinner time, or whatever. But you have a wish to meditate and that is why you made an effort to be here.

There are four types of aspirations. Wishing to meet an object, wishing not to be separated from an object, wishing to obtain an object and wishing to be released from an object. Let’s take an example. Your kids are coming home for holidays. You wish to meet them. That is wishing to meet an object. You don’t want them to leave. That is wishing not to be separated from an object. You want to get a promotion, or make a lot of money, that is wishing to obtain an object. You want to remove your self-cherishing mind that is wishing to be released from an object. Depending upon our motivation each one of them could be virtuous, non-virtuous, or neutral. Wishing to steal would be an example of non-virtuous aspiration as opposed to wishing to meditate would be a virtuous aspiration.

Next let’s look at firm apprehension. It is a mental factor that allows our primary mind to apprehend the object firmly. It is also a foundation for mindfulness and concentration. You see, unless we understand an object clearly, we will not be able to keep our mind on it for long. Take this topic for example. These teachings come from a book called “How To Understand The Mind.”  When I first read this book, I would put it down after a couple of pages. It was too complex. Then, I started to break it down in relatable examples and that helped me continue to read the book in a way that I could explain it to someone else. Without firm apprehension, our mind is like a leaf floating in the air. It has no direction and it cannot stay at one place for long.

Next mental factor is mindfulness. It is a mental factor that allows us not to forget an object that is realized by our primary mind. Mindfulness can only focus on an object once it is realized. If an object is not present, you cannot have mindfulness about that object. Mindfulness maintains continuum of the object by not forgetting. What does that mean? When we do our empty sky meditation for example. Once we realize that our mind has this empty sky like nature and we keep our focus on the clarity of our mind, mindfulness helps us keep it there. We will continue to observe the clarity of our mind without distractions. If our primary mind lacks mindfulness, it will forget the object. The function of mindfulness is to prevent distractions. The more stable our mindfulness, fewer distracting thoughts we will have. We need to make continuous efforts to improve our mindfulness.

The next mental factor is concentration. Concentration helps us keep our primary mind on the object single-pointedly. It can develop only when an object is held firmly by mindfulness. There are three types of concentration. When we are meditating, we have virtuous concentration. When we are driving, we have neutral concentration. And when we are thinking about our enemies, we have non-virtuous concentration. Concentration is very important for our spiritual progress. Listening to teachings, reciting mantras, contemplating teachings, meditating, all are only effective when we have a mind that is concentrating. Buddha said that prayers, mantras, spiritual readings are of no use if the mind is distracted elsewhere. The main function of virtuous concentration is to make our mind peaceful. When our mind is free from distractions, it becomes calm and peaceful. When our mind is peaceful and happy, craving for external pleasure declines and we become content. Pure concentration also helps our body and mind become comfortable.

The next mental factor is wisdom. It is a virtuous, intelligent mind that makes primary mind realize meaningful object. What are these meaningful objects you may ask? They are also known as universal truths. Some of the meaningful objects are cycle of life and birth, existence of past and future lives, laws of karma, and emptiness. There is a monumental difference between intelligence and wisdom that I want to bring out here. An intelligent person is not necessarily a wise person. Let’s take an example. Scientists who develop weapons of war are intelligent but I am sure we can question their wisdom in doing so. Or wolves on wall street who pray on investors are certainly intelligent but you would not call them wise. Function of wisdom is to eliminate doubts and misunderstandings and to dispel ignorance. If we understand the benefits of wisdom, we will strive to achieve it. Opponent of wisdom is ignorance. Nothing harms us more than ignorance. Ignorance makes us create negative karma. Wisdom can arise from listening or reading spiritual teachings; it can arise from contemplating on those teachings; and it can arise from meditating on those teachings.

As you can see our mind is a fascinating subject and hopefully, we are peeling the layers to understand how it functions.

Five Mental Factors

We talked about three types of mind last session. In today’s session, I want to continue discussion our mind in a bit detail. When it comes to function, mind can be divided into primary mind and mental factors. The primary mind is the same as what we call soul or consciousness. Mental factors are the ones that identify the attributes of an object. It is important to note that primary mind and mental factors are not two separate entities. You can think of primary mind as a flame and the mental factors are the rays of the flame—they are not separate from each other.

There are five mental factors and if one of them is missing our primary mind cannot cognize the object. These factors are: feeling, discrimination, intention, contact, and attention.

Feeling experiences an object as pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. Discrimination allows us to identify the object by distinguishing one object from another. Intention enables the mind towards the object and get involved with it. Contact perceives an object as pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral and becomes the basis for our feelings. Attention focuses our mind on the object.

Let’s look at each one in a little depth starting with feeling. Feeling can be pleasant, unpleasant or neutral. One side note: enlightened beings only experience pleasant feelings. Beings in God realm and formless realm experience pleasant and neutral feelings. We in the human realm, experience all three types of feelings. Also of the note, when we are sleeping, we only experience neutral feelings. Except when we are dreaming then we can experience pleasant and unpleasant feelings as well.

General function of feeling is to experience the effects of previous actions or karma. Buddha said that fully ripened effects of karma can only be experienced on consciousness. Virtuous actions result in pleasant feelings, non-virtuous actions result in unpleasant feelings, and neutral actions result in neutral feelings. We tend to think that pleasant feelings come from pleasant objects and so on. But that is not the case, it completely depends on our karma. Take medicine for example. Same medicine that cures one person can have deadly reaction for another person.

Function of contaminated feeling is to induce three poisons in the form of attachment, hatred, and ignorance. For example, when we develop contaminated pleasant feeling, we develop craving or attachment. This is because of delusions that we carry with us from our past karma. If we have mastered our delusions, even when we get pleasant feelings, we would not create cravings or attachment. So it is important for us to become free from self-grasping. Once our self-grasping is gone, the feelings are pure and we can be free from attachment, anger, or ignorance.  Uncontaminated feelings on the other side are directly based on wisdom or true nature of phenomenon.

Next, let’s talk about discrimination. Every object has features that distinguishes itself from other objects. Function of discrimination is to apprehend one object from another. When our eye consciousness sees a tree, it recognizes the tree based on its characteristics. A newborn on the other hand, is unable to recognize a tree. I know discrimination has become a dirty word in our society but all discrimination means is “this” and not “that” nothing more, nothing less. Discrimination can be associated with six types: eye, ear, tongue, nose, body, and mental. If one of them is missing discrimination, it cannot identify an object. For example, if we have faulty eyesight, our eyes may not be able to discriminate objects clearly. This goes for all other types of discrimination.

Discrimination can be mistaken or unmistaken. We act destructively because of our delusions. All delusions are mistaken discrimination. For example, anger has mistaken discrimination that identifies an object as an inherently unpleasant and attachment has mistaken discrimination that identifies an object as an inherently pleasant. In reality, both of these are mistaken discrimination because an object is never pleasant or unpleasant from its own side, it is the mind that perceives it as such.

There are many causes of wrong discrimination such as previous karmic imprints, familiarity, listening to wrong advice, contemplating wrong reasons, etc. We all have seeds of mistaken discrimination but whether or not they ripen depends upon lifestyle choices we make. If we lead a non-virtuous life, we will tend to develop wrong thoughts as a way to justify our choices. Clear and correct discrimination helps us make positive choices when it comes to creating our karma.

Next is intention. Primary function of intention is to put a focus on the object. You will notice that sometimes you are seating in a room and your mind wanders off to a totally different place. This is because our intention associated with inner winds is carrying our mind to the object. Principal function of intention is to create karma. We talk about this when we study karma. Definition of karma is a body, speech, or mental actions initiated by mental intention. If there is no intention, there is no karma. We discussed this at length in our karma sessions.

Next is contact. Function of contact is to perceive the object as pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. Once it perceives the object as such, it then creates the appropriate feeling for that object. For example, if our tongue tastes sugar and finds it pleasant, it then develops a pleasant feeling. Contact is associated with six types: eye, ear, tongue, nose, body, and mental.

The final mental factor is attention. Attention has four functions: 1)to focus the mind on a particular object; 2) to fix the mind on that object; 3) to prevent the mind from moving from that object; and 4) to serve as a basis for mindfulness and concentration.

To develop mindfulness and concentration, we must develop strong and stable attention.

Enemy of My Enemy

I attended a meditation retreat over the weekend. During the retreat, the teacher mentioned something that got me thinking. He said we often think that people are our enemy. However, our real enemy is our delusions. So if our real enemy is our delusions and other people’s real enemy is delusions as well then other people are our friends since we have the same enemy. Let’s dig in.

Often we consider other people as our real enemies. Someone who cut us off in traffic for example. This is how road rage starts. Someone cuts us off intentionally or otherwise. All of a sudden, we are all riled up. Some people even chase the other car putting themselves and everyone around them in danger. All because they perceive the other driver as their enemy. Funny thing is that the other driver may not even realize that they cut us off and may be just driving without giving it a thought. Now, we have given rent-free space to that driver in our head. We get angry and in that state of anger, we make decisions that are not prudent to say the least. This angry state of mind also affects our health. It increases our blood pressure, affects our heart health, affects our memory and so forth.

And this is true for all of our delusions. Whether it is anger, attachment, hatred, jealousy, and so forth, each one of our delusions affects us negatively. It affects our mental health, makes us anxious and even depressed, and all of that drama usually plays out in our heads. Shantideva an Indian scholar said and I am paraphrasing here, that we must fight our real enemy—our delusions with everything we have. We must destroy our delusions. We must not give delusions time of day if you will.

Instead, we think other people are our enemies. That driver who cut us off. Or even people who we think we love. They did not take the trash out or did not greet us properly or were upset with our behavior and so forth. But if we think about it, they all suffer from similar plight. They all have the same delusions that we are going through. It reminds me of a story about this airline passenger. There was a father and son traveling. The kid was upset and was not behaving properly. The passenger next to him got irritated and told the father that he should try and control his son. The father goes you are right and I am trying but his mom passed away recently so he is having a tough time. All of a sudden passenger felt empathy for the kid instead of anger toward him.

And this is true for anyone we think of as our enemy. They all have their own delusions they are battling with. That coworker who you think is always bothering you may have some personal issues they are going through. Because we put our comfort and our needs first, often we don’t even try to think about what may be going on in someone else’s life. This putting ourselves first is what we refer to as Self-Cherishing. Since beginningless time, we have been conditioned to think about our needs and our comfort ahead of everyone else’s. As a result, anytime someone gives us the slightest discomfort real or perceived—often it is perceived—but that is a topic for another day, we tend to regard them as our enemy. Look at our social fabric. If someone disagrees with our point of view, they are our enemy. We can’t even have a civilized conversation about our political views anymore. If we take time to put our self-cherishing aside, we will realize that everyone else is in the same boat. They all have the same delusions that we are fighting.

And if all of us have the same delusions, the same enemy if you will, then does it not make sense to think wait, they are my friends? We are all battling the same enemy here. Why don’t we team up? So empathy towards them. Realize they are not our enemies. The real enemy is within us—our delusions. If we put all our efforts into fighting this enemy, we can make a difference. Because we all have this Buddha nature. This is pure potential. This ability to be happy and peaceful all the time without getting disturbed by external events. No person or thing can make us unhappy because as they say, agony and ecstasy are within us. What happens out there should not be able to disturb what happens within us. What happens in here is entirely up to us. If we realize that, we will no longer take on the world as our enemy and resulting peace will help us become more happy, peaceful, joyful, and otherwise nicer human beings.