Equalizing Self w Others

Let’s talk about equalizing ourselves with others. This means cherishing others as much as we cherish ourselves. Earlier in Episode 5, we talked about the kindness of others – although it seems like ages ago! Just to recap on that so we can build on it. So many people are kind to us on a daily basis. For example, let’s take the simple act of drinking a glass of water. Someone had to design a water system (countless people are involved in just the design phase); then someone built that water system; water is being purified and filtered before it is delivered to your home. Someone designed, built, shipped, and sold the water glass to you. Can you imagine how many total numbers of people were involved for you to get that glass of water?

Next, we think about they all want to be happy as much as we do. And that is the fact correct. No one that we know says I don’t want to be happy. They may not say in as many words that I want to be happy but we all know that they do. All of us want to eliminate physical and mental pain that comes along every now and then. Unfortunately, more often than not. So I think we all agree that all in that regard we are no different from other beings. We are all equal.

Finally, we think about they are many and I am just one. This is a little bit difficult for a lot of people to grasp. But let’s say you were put in charge of saving an African village. One action you take will help 499 out of 500 people in that village but will negatively impact one person. But if you don’t take that action, all 500 people will suffer. Now you don’t know anyone in that village. So for you, this is an easy decision. You will take the action for the greater good – help 499 people. You are able to make that decision because you have detached yourself so you are able to take an objective look at the situation. Similarly, if we objectively take a look, we are just one person and they are many. Their happiness is as much of importance as our happiness. This is the process of equalizing self with others.

Positive Karma

Let’s talk about virtuous or positive actions. There are three parts to this discussion. 1) ten virtuous actions; 2) factors in the beneficial powers; 3) the effects of virtual actions. Virtuous actions are paths that lead to happiness. Similar to ten negative actions, there are ten positive actions. They are essentially opposite to ten negative actions. Each of the ten positive actions is restraint from their respective negative action. They are abandoning killing, abandoning stealing, abandoning sexual misconduct, abandoning lying, abandoning divisive speech, abandoning hurtful speech, abandoning idle chatter, abandoning covetousness, abandoning malice, and abandoning holding wrong views. Each of the ten principal virtuous actions is restraint from one of the ten non-virtuous actions. To refrain deliberately from non-virtuous actions, having understood their danger is what is important for it to be a virtuous action. For example, when a baby does not steal does not mean that baby is practicing virtuous action because the baby does not understand the dangers of the effects of stealing. Let’s take killing as an example. Some people are able to take all living beings as their object and try to abandon the killing of all living beings. This means insects on up. Some people say a fisherman whose job it is to catch fish may not want to do that initially. But they can take all objects except a fish and abandon the killing of those objects. They can then slowly introduce not killing a fish on weekends, at nights and so forth slowly increasing these periods of time. Once we have made this decision as long as we remain mindful, our virtuous actions are being fulfilled. Just like non-virtuous actions, the more we perform a virtuous action, the more powerful it becomes. All positive Karma also has three kinds of effects. The ripened effect, the effect similar to the cause, and the environmental effect. The ripened effect is taking birth in a higher realm such as human birth. Effects tendencies similar to virtuous actions allow us the opportunity to perform the same kind of virtuous actions over and over. As long as we don’t resist these tendencies, we will have an opportunity to add on to our balance of virtuous actions. Experience similar to cause affords better living conditions. For example, an experience similar to abandoning killing is that we enjoy a long life; the experience similar to abandoning stealing is that we effortlessly accumulate wealth. Have you ever noticed some people tend to have a Midas touch and make money effortlessly in anything they try? That is an experience similar to the previous virtuous action of abandoning stealing. Experience similar to the action of abandoning sexual misconduct is that we have stable friendships and happier family life. The environmental effects of virtuous actions are opposite to the environmental effects of non-virtuous actions. It is important to point out that an environmental effect is not a quality of external conditions but the quality of the mind that experiences that. What do I mean by that? The same external conditions can be experienced as different environmental effects by different minds. For example, in a place where most people find the food good and nourishing, some people experience nausea and indigestion. Two people can take the same medicine and one of them can get an adverse side effect. So it is the individual Karma of each one of us that determines the environmental effect. The object of virtuous action also affects the power of our actions. For example, if we give a pair of clothes to a hungry person, it counts. But, if we give them food, it is much more powerful. The motivation behind any action is also important. For example, we give something that we don’t have any need for counts. But if we give something with a wish to benefit someone is much more powerful. As you can see there is a lot to unpack here. Karma is a deep and profound subject. Hopefully, over the last five sessions, we have scratched the surface and all of us are beginning to think about the long term effects of our day to day actions.